Sexual Harassment

Sexual harassment is a very touchy subject that many of us do not like to talk about. We all know it happens, but we don’t always recognize that it comes in many different forms. Sexual harassment isn’t just physical. It can also be verbal or even nonverbal, with indicators such as inappropriate staring or rude gestures (http://www.cwfefc.org/svfacts.html). It’s unpleasant, humiliating, and embarrassing to be sexually harassed, and many of us don’t realize when we’re being harassed because we’re always sweeping it under the rug.

            I believe it’s about time to speak up and to start educating our young women about sexual harassment. The most common thing people do is blame the victim, and sometimes the victim even blames him or her self. However, the victim never asked to be sexually harassed, and the harasser can always learn to control him or her self. If you are being sexually harassed, address it and tell someone, such as an adult, a friend, or just someone you trust to help you. Don’t let it go unnoticed because your body is your temple and it should be treated as such.

            That’s why sexual harassment is in the same category as molestation and rape. Molestation, rape, and sexual harassment are related because the action being done is not consented. If you gave consent to any type of intimacy, it wouldn’t be considered any of these three things, unless you are under the age of consent. However, learning the difference between giving consent and not giving consent is also an important part of sexual harassment education. Almost anything that shows that you’re enjoying it is consent, as long as you’re over the age of sixteen and not disabled. If you don’t respond, show any signs of discomfort, or say stop, then you’re not giving consent. You have the right to not give consent; it’s perfectly okay. This will also help you realize when you’re being sexually harassed.